“ Life is a delicate maneuver of selection, rejection, review and change. Each person entering our world brings either a contribution or destruction.” (Rohn, Jim. The Seasons Of Life. pg. 34)
Being strict with who has access to you is not a bad characteristic to continue building.
We all have met someone that we do not want to be like based on their circumstances and decision making skills.
That should give you enough reassurance to not give up and continue learning.
People that enjoy gossip, entertain drama and share negative comments are the unhappiest ones of them all. Pay close attention.
Once we learn what we do and do not appreciate from others is when we also learn how to set our boundaries.
People will continue to take advantage of having access to your positivity, hard work and all the fun things you are capable of creating.
Some may even laugh at you because you want to change for the better.
Although they might not see it or act as if they don’t, you have to be aware of how people around you are moving.
Everyone earns their keep.
There is nothing wrong with having your standards of what you want from a good friend, business partner or even your significant other.
Because once you have a great understanding of what is a positive selection in your life, you can share your success with true support.
We live and learn with who we have encountered in our lives.
It’s okay to walk away.
It’s okay to not respond anymore.
It’s okay to voice your boundaries.
It’s your life, not theirs.
Have control over peace. Don’t allow someone to live rent free in your mind.
Make decisions to move on from negative individuals.